"Am I with the most selfish person alive?""Am I being selfish when I do the things I want to do?""If you loved me, you would…"The battle of what "I want" versus what "you want" is intense. Couples are in a constant tug of war, squabbling with each other with no regard for their partner's feelings, with great guilt over their own perceived selfishness, or feeling somewhere in between. And it's costing us our relationships.What About Me? will guide readers through the new terrain of relationships in this era of entitlement, showing how selfishness plays a role and helping you better understand what being selfish really is. Learn to:see beyond what you perceive as selfish requests—your partner's and your ownconquer the selfish hot spots that flare up in your relationshipunderstand all the differences, fears, and preferences that come between couplesThrough anecdotes and quizzes, and drawing from Dr. Jane Greer's more than twenty years of experience in relationship counseling, What About M